A beautiful young girl in her teenage age was crying along the street sides, where the street touts

normally hang out. She is already a mother of two with a terminal disease probably an std.

Let’s stop here and examine this situation a little. Some of you will be thinking she’s some whore who

loved boy’s right from her momma’s womb. This is normal for human beings, always quick to judge and

criticize. But hate to be criticized. Criticism brings about low self-esteem to the victim. Think about it this

way; imagine if she was only an infant when she lost both parents via a fatal auto crash, and because of

her beauty, boys kept on coming. But as a young pretty girl who is very much vulnerable to the vices of

the bad side of the society, was left alone to fend for herself with no body to help. So she had to give in

What if she got into a fight with her single mom who has lots of boyfriends, and she was sent out of her

home?. A young girl like that who is lacking internal love because trust me family love is all one needs to

face any society. Decides to go in search of love elsewhere?

I am not saying its normal for a young teen to be in that condition. All am saying is we should be slow to

judge. Always put yourself in that shoe and check. Everybody needs love. Those so called hardened men

are only hard because they lack love and are so insecure to go in search of it. Put a smile on some ones

face today. Look at the positive side of things before commenting. Make sure you put a smile on

someone’s face, because we all beautiful and life is too short for us not to realize that.

By Nwoko Alexandre.